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If you’re after more anal sex reading, here’s another general guide on how to have anal sex that covers douching, communication, lube and some other stuff. Most of these gay sex positions are anal sex positions, but there are some non-penetrative sexual positions at the end too.
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Whoever said physics was boring? Anal sex positions If you’re a tall man and the guy you’re having sex with is much shorter, you’ll be able to fuck in positions that a pair of beefy fellas wouldn’t find comfortable.Īt the end of the day it’s all about angles, different levels of flexibility and being able to hold or change positions. And for once, we’re not talking about cocks. What works for you and your partner/s will depend on your shape and size. This guide to the four most accessible – and we reckon most pleasurable – gay sex positions will help get you started.īefore we get stuck into how to stick it in, we’d always condone safer sex and recommend you read our guide to PrEP, and always use condoms when having sex. But where to start? What feels best? How do you gay men have sex? The last one I actually even posted it online for everyone else to read.” He says it's forever etched into his brain and makes him have self-doubt to this day.As anyone who’s ever had gay sex, thought about gay sex or watched gay sex will know there are endless combinations possible gay sex positions. He says, “Some of the nastiest things people have written to me online are, ‘Thank god you are not a woman, because you are so ugly and fat that no man would ever fuck you’, ‘Your mother should have killed you when you were young so the gay community would be spared’, ‘Darshil I would fuck you and date you only if you lost all that fat you carry around’.
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I want to exist as a person, to be respected and loved, and not as someone's fetish.”ĭarshil, another dear friend who now lives and works in hospitality in Sydney, was vocal about the deep-seated hate gay men harbour towards people on the plus side. “Even the guys who like bears have said things like: You're too hairy for me / you’re not hairy enough / you're too fat / you're not fat enough / you're not top enough / you're not bottom enough.
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In his case, people don’t just make him feel bad for being chubby. What I would have never imagined, though, was trading my high school bullies for members of my own queer community. But even then, I always had my snark as a weapon and managed to own my hefty self. Body weight (thin or fat) went in one category, the ones with thick glasses went in another, dark-skinned folks in one, and the girls with short skirts in yet another… you get the drill. High school was a weird time because everyone immediately got bracketed based on the first, most apparent, and superficial thing about them. Adnan Sami released “Lift Kara De” around the same time, and my bullies found a new nickname, apart from the usual mote (fatso), bhains (buffalo), and gende (rhino). The way I always saw it, the world needed both thin and fat folks to maintain the universal balance of body mass. Ask any kid around you who grew up fat (or still is). On the contrary, it’s a constant war waged on us by gravity and sweaty pits. Life as a chubby kid is never rainbows and sunshines.